When you’re creating change, whether it’s stepping into a new job, building confidence, or reclaiming your Main Character Energy, it doesn’t happen in one magical moment. It happens in the micro-moments.

In the split seconds where you choose to back yourself, even when it’s uncomfortable.

In the small acts of courage, repeated over time.

Helping others is a beautiful trait. One we often associate with being a good colleague, a great team player, a reliable friend.

Many of us are raised and rewarded for being the ones who make things work, especially as women, and we do it quietly, competently, without complaint.

But what happens when that helpfulness becomes your entire identity?